Don’t you love it how people always have to put their two cents in.
I swear that whatever you do, someone will have something to say about it. Then they start offering their advice about your situation. well, I apologize but my situation is exactly that- my situation. You do not need permission to live, learn and make any decisions. Anyway, who made anyone an expert about anyone’s life.
I always say this, at the end of the day, when I lie down in bed, it is just me there and that is when I reflect on the events that happened throughout the day and my conscience starts kicking in. So, if at that point, I am happy, I will continue on doing exactly what I want. I need no advice unless I ask for it, I don’t care what you would do if you were in my shoes or anything for that matter. I may be making a mistake, but how else would I learn anyway.
Sometimes, we are just too afraid to hurt people’s feelings but saying no thank you is not meant to hurt anyone. You should go through your life as you see fit and granted, you will make lots of mistakes, but think about them as learning experiences and grow from them.
And if you are one of those people who deemed themselves experts on life, please don’t stand in anyone’s growth with your advice, wait till you are asked for them. Otherwise, you are not doing the person any good.
We only have this one life to live, so let’ s live it fully, truly and fearlessly!